For My Mom, Who I Have Cried With for the First Time
My mother knows her family
ends with her parents’ death.
She tells me so. Her guilt
breaking. (She loves
the ocean, she always
puts her feet in.)
& what do centuries matter
to decades. & what do lifetimes
matter to tears. How her sister
in childhood fashioned an other
incandescent mother.
How for a moment
we laughed. How
I did not understand.
I wonder if my mother knows
how seagulls fly inland
when the air speaks
to them of changing
tides, how danger approaches
before the sky turns grey.
My mother says
​
my mom and I see
what I have not
and am empty.
My mother says
please
and I have changed
my mind. my mother says
I’m sorry and
I cannot help but know
her and cry. I wonder
if my mother knows how
love wells up, how knowing
becomes something else,
something I have
not learned the word for.
I wonder if
my mother knows
how inheritance
is nothing. How
I know a daughter
sees what she will be
​
blind to. How I called
her momma. How my mother
does not know her family
begins with her. How
I do not know her family
began with me.
From Yellow Book
Rhiannon Briggs